My Second Name is Emotion

About ColNarinder Singh Malhan

Colonel Narinder Singh Malhan was commissioned from Indian Military Academy (IMA), Dehradun. On having served for almost four decades in Indian Army, he loves to share his experiences through his writings. In his opinion, every life has a lot to unfold. Each life is unique and is an historical document with its own identity. He strongly feels, real discovery is through introspection by looking back in own time. He believes, sharing own experiences are like revisiting life's milestones with more intensity. He thoroughly enjoyed his journey in uniform.

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I am yet to come across an emotional personal like her. She is an ocean of emotions. She always says, her second name is emotion. She has no hesitation in accepting, emotion resides inside and rules over her. She maintains, everyone connects with her differently. For some, she says, she has been weak, because she is emotional, and for others who loves her, she has always been the most loving person. She is always sure to accept, she lives through her heart. She defines it beautifully and defends herself proactively when she says, one has to realize that the most beautiful things in life are not seen, but are felt through heart. That is why one closes eyes while one dreams, cries, kisses or prays. She always laughs loudly and reiterates, she, at least, exists beyond confusion. She is real and clear of manipulation. She proudly says, she is beyond someone’s intellect. That gives her a reason for celebration that she can be trusted with closed eyes, that is a plain truth.

Her favorite question always remains, have you heard of the most beautiful things in the world, which can be seen or even touched. Her reply speaks of her conviction, when she says that the best things are always felt through the heart. That is one area, where she stands tall among the best. That makes her a beautiful human being. It makes me more curious when I hear her say that she becomes pleasant or unpleasant, but never with a purpose. Her only simple wish has been that she is not to be locked inside. It is good for everyone or to herself, if she is allowed to blossom and flow out.

She, very softly, challenges me often, that none can doubt her sincerity. Yes, I fully endorse her’s this feeling, she is sincere to the fault. She has a soft and silky smile on her face, when she compares herself with pearls. She conveys with conviction, that this simile alone is the way to see her through purity and truthfulness, which she possesses in abundance. It brings smile on my face when she says, she works at a higher plane. So, it will be a mistake to see her through the prism of narrow view.

She is vocal when she lays contours to define herself. No language, she finds good enough to define her, as that will not pierce through vocabulary of heart. Here self description is absolutely beautiful, when she says, one can feel her by looking into her eyes to feel her true love. Once, one experiences that, it is almost impossible to imagine life without her. She poses a straight and direct question, asking me to define ‘Love at First Sight’. She, with a smile on her face, answers with visible honesty that It comes through that moment when you first see that person. This is all because of her second name, emotion. This cannot be hidden. It appears on face when one is crippled from inside. So, she finds nothing wrong in being emotional.

She has that cute and naively smile, when she says, whatever, it may be, she cannot be ignored. She may feel sad too often, but there is always something beautiful in her sadness. She is not on defensive, when she says, there is no need to feel bad when one feels sad, it is always good to reflect all colours and contours of canvas and love. She further adds, she is good in all shapes, let it be bliss or feeling gloomy.

Do you know, she explains further that good stealing comes through her second name, emotion. It is when two people fall in love, they steal each other’s heart and commit this crime. It is when two people make each others heart beat faster whenever they see name of their beloved blinking on their phone. It is because her this core value, people will put more interest in life of their love than their own. They are, for sure, are reflections of the purest and truest of emotions. And quite likely, world will never come to know about them.

But be careful and a word of caution, I have discreetly been advising her, if you do not rein your emotions, a day may come when it may start controlling you.

She continues to explain, It is her second name which makes people fall in love. So what, so many could catch your eyes, but only one of them could catch your heart, this happens because of that emotional connect. Here, she says, her emotion replaces gravity and makes people fall in love. It is this emotion which will make people do anything, while in love, asking only love in return. Because of this, people will find emotional texture wonderful, when they will feel love between two canvasses, when one would sleep, and the moment one would wake up. It would make you meet the person who wishes to bring smile forever.

She gives final advice; it is perfectly fine to be emotional. Most of the time, it may be the cause for the celebration. So what, you are emotional, that is not to be feared or bottled. Learn to accept it, this is a virtue, and not to be seen as a reason to regret. So, celebrate and feel wonderful, as it resides inside the most beautiful human beings and the most enriched souls.


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